“Frustration is a function of our expectations…”
(Stephen Covey)
You ever really look forward to seeing a movie?
Well, I have. And
several years ago, I was looking forward to seeing a movie that opened right
before my birthday.
I had a really long week, but just kept thinking of what it
would be like for it to be Saturday and how I’d be feeling when I was watching
this movie. I’d be sitting in the
air-conditioned theater, legs kicked up, eating popcorn, and enjoying a few
hours of restful entertainment. It was a
dream in my mind to be sitting in that early showing. And being that it was going
to be my birthday, there didn’t seem to be any obstacles to this unfolding like
I had envisioned.
I had my birthday breakfast, my wife and kids left to run
errands, and I was just killing time before the movie. Then I heard a knock on the door. It was my neighbor and he asked if I could
help jump his wife’s car across the street at the recreation center.
I quickly glanced down at the time on my phone. I still had twenty minutes until I had to
leave, so we hopped into my car and ran over to the recreation center. I parked next to his wife’s car and he said that
we needed to talk to her inside first. I
wasn’t sure why that was necessary, but I dutifully followed him. He went down a hallway and then opened up a
door to a room that I hadn’t been in before.
“SURPRISE! Happy
Birthday!”
I looked up and saw smiling friends and family all around this
mysterious room filled with birthday streamers.
My wife was beaming, looking at me expectantly. This should have been a really happy time,
but my disappointed face said it all.
My perfect birthday plans had been foiled. I was crestfallen. This long-awaited movie wasn’t going to
happen.
Expectations aren’t always rational, but they are very
real. My wife worked so hard at putting
it together and people took time out of their day to celebrate my birthday; I
should have been extremely thankful and had a massively happy day. But my happiness was temporarily jolted. I did not get what I expected and was feeling
sour.
As Charlotte property
managers, listing vacant homes for rent is somewhat straightforward. We typically fix up and clean the homes before
putting then on the market so everyone knows what to expect. Prospective tenants are walking into a home
that largely looks like it will when they move-in. Rental home owners have already paid the
fix-up costs. Tenants could move-in
immediately after rental application acceptance. Everyone has relatively clear expectations on
what is transpiring.
However, it’s not so clear when there are showings on an
occupied rental home. Prospective
tenants see a home that is being lived in and this creates many potential
questions: Is this home being painted after the current tenants move out? Is the stained carpet being cleaned or
replaced? Are there any upgrades being
done prior to move-in? What items were
brought by the tenant and will be removed, and what stays? When will it be ready for me to move into?
The rental home owner also has questions: Can we avoid a
full paint job when the existing tenants vacate? Can the stained carpet stay? How much of the security deposit can we
use? What are all these things going to
cost?
The tenants and owners are asking the property manager for
answers, but the property manager has questions too: What condition is the home
going to be left in when the existing tenant leaves? Is the tenant going to paint before
move-out? Are they any good at
painting? Will the stains come out of
the carpet? What will my final
walk-through reveal about the house when everything is out?
Everyone has expectations.
Generally-speaking, the incoming tenants expect a nice-looking house
with everything working when they move into it.
The exiting tenants expect to get most of their security deposit
back. The owner expects not having to
pay a lot to fix-up the property for incoming tenants. These don’t always gibe.
And when expectations are not met, people get upset. Even on their birthday!
Many property managers and landlords don’t market occupied
homes until they are vacated, partly to avoid issues like this. It can seem like a great idea to get a jump
on finding a tenant, but managing expectations while dealing with uncertainty
can be challenging.
Smart landlords who do choose to go this route have
conversations with all parties and try to set realistic expectations with all
of them to avoid disappointing surprises.
As I’ve been told, surprise parties are supposed to be fun!
Happy Landlording!






