“Talk is Cheap.” (Keith Richards)
“Talk can be expensive!” (Property Manager)
There are “hands-off” owner clients. And then there are the “hands-on” varieties.
The “hands off” clients just want to know the rent money is in their account on the day they expect. If there are repairs that are going to cost them money, they want to know that too. They just want the bare bone facts with no fluff. That’s fine.
Then there are the “hands-on” owners. They want to be continually updated if there is any news at all about their properties. “What repairs are needed now?” “Is the tenant caring for the lawn?” That’s fine. “How did Felicia do on her math test last Friday?”
What??? Who’s Felicia?
As I pull the property folder and scan through the lease, “Felicia” is listed as an 8-year old occupant. Unfortunately, no math test scores were listed. Darn!
As a property manager, we work for the owners. However, we want to have good relationships with our tenants as well. When executed properly, we serve as a cordial buffer between them. That is a valuable service!
However, we can’t get too friendly with tenants, as much as we’d like to with many of them. We don’t work for them. If we get involved talking about their families and what’s going on with Felicia, we can’t do our jobs effectively. For example, what happens when they don’t pay rent and we need to evict them? The relationship gets really personal; personal to the effect of your “friend” calling you screaming that you’re heartless, they can’t understand why you would evict them when you know she lost her job, and how we felt about Felicia being homeless? Yeah, that’s not a good conversation.
Any decent property manager (with any length of experience) quickly learns to keep a professional distance so this type of scenario doesn’t happen. Dealing with these types of situations where bad things happen in our residents’ lives is part of the job (not a good part!). But we know how to deal with them.
This is where the “hands-on” owner sometimes gets in trouble. They decide to contact the tenant in their home and forge a bond. Instead of relying on the property manager for home updates, they go straight to the source. And this is where talk leaves the “free zone” and becomes expensive. Here are a few examples:
1. The owner calls the tenant regularly and asks how things are going. The tenant brings up any minor issue with the home. The owner feels compelled to ask us to send a repairman there.
2. The property manager asks for a rental price increase. The tenant calls the owner directly and makes their case on why they can’t afford it. The rent stays the same.
3. The tenant is late paying rent and the eviction is scheduled to begin. The tenant calls the owner and swears to pay soon. The owner asks us to call of the eviction. This usually doesn’t work out and the owner loses more money.
My favorite all-time story on this topic is the owner who called us about rescinding a rental increase planned for his tenant. When we asked why he didn’t want the extra money, he said:
“It’s not worth it to me to hear him griping night-after-night about it. To even it up, he’d just make me pick up more rounds at the bar anyway.”
When owners talk to tenants, it takes their relationship from a business to a personal one. And it’s tough for most to say “no” to a friend, even when it means taking a financial loss.
So save some money and resist the urge to talk to your tenant. Rest assured, Felicia’s very capable math teacher is doing her job!
Brett Furniss is the President & Owner of BDF Realty (“Charlotte’s Most Innovative Property Management & Investment Company”), and Rent-To-Sell Realty (“When You Need a New Solution to Sell Your Home”) which specialize in rent-to-own (lease options) and rent-to-sell homes. His newest book, A Real Estate Agent’s Complete Guide to Representing Rent-To-Own (Lease Option) Tenants (Delight Clients, Fill Vacant Homes, and Earn $2,250* Upfront! (*Minimum!)