I’m a big believer in setting expectations in relationships; it seems to make things go more smoothly. If you know clearly what you’re supposed to do and I know what I’m supposed to do, there is less opportunity for hurt feelings and animosity. A beautiful, life-long relationship can blossom! (Cue the romantic music…)
This is why many married couples say the first year of marriage is the hardest. There is no book of set expectations for each partner; it’s created on the fly. The idyllic vision of married life begins to fade quickly when real life is thrust upon them. Who pays the bills? How many days are you staying out late with your buddies? You want me to iron the clothes? These fun questions need to be addressed and expectations of conduct need to be negotiated so both spouses are (mostly) satisfied. There is no marriage contract that explicitly spells this out.
Fortunately, a landlord-tenant relationship is governed by a set of rules known as “the lease”; this should theoretically make things easy! A lease is a perfect way to express your expectations to your tenant. That sounds good, but how come there often seems to be hurt feelings and bickering in leasing relationships? From the landlord’s perspective, the tenant should read the contract and follow it to the letter, right? If the tenants did everything the lease said, there would be no issues. So, of course, the issue lies with bad, rebellious tenants.
Wrong. The problem is a society who doesn’t have the time to read anymore. You are in the minority that you have made it past the Twitter-restricted 180 characters and are on to the fourth paragraph of this blog. Congrats! Pat yourself on the back!
And the standard lease is not exactly a page turner! It is legal jargon with no cool pictures or diagrams that goes on for page after long page…
If you want your tenant to know what you want them to do, you must verbally tell them. They will remember what you say and will usually act accordingly. Your leasing relationship will be the better for it! Guaranteed.
Tell the tenants what you expect (the Cliff Notes version please!) and what you are going to do for them (and won’t do for them!). The five most important things I make sure I cover with tenants in our lease signings:
1. The date the rent is due (the 1st of the month), the day it is late (it must be RECEIVED by the 5th of the month), and the day eviction is filed (the 16th) if we don’t hear from them and work something out. I also mention the late, bad check, and eviction fees that would be due in each scenario.
2. Where their security deposit is, what it is for, when it will be returned (within 30 days after move-out), and under what conditions some of it may be withheld.
3. Explaining that aesthetically the home is “as is”. When things stop working (HVAC, plumbing, etc.), what the repair process is and how it is handled.
4. I explain the 3 keys to a good tenancy: paying your rent on time, getting along with your neighbors, and keeping the home in good shape (including standard maintenance).
5. How early lease terminations are handled. Life happens and this is how you can get out of your lease and keep your credit intact. (Note: We ask that a 30-day notice be given along with 2 months of rent as a lease termination fee, in addition to the rent due up to the vacancy date)
6. Bonus item message to give for property managers: “We are not the owner of this home. We are the messenger. We don’t always like being the messenger, because messengers get shot sometimes. You don’t need to shoot us. We’d actually really appreciate it if you didn’t.”
This isn’t a comprehensive list, but it is important to remember that attention spans are not endless. These five points should be helpful in having a great relationship with your tenant!
Brett Furniss is the President & Owner of BDF Realty (Charlotte Property Management) which works with Charlotte real estate investors and homeowners and Rent-To-Sell Realty (“When You Need a New Solution to Sell Your Home”) which specialize in rent-to-own (lease options) and rent-to-sell homes. His newest book, A Real Estate Agent’s Complete Guide to Representing Rent-To-Own (Lease Option) Tenants (Delight Clients, Fill Vacant Homes, and Earn $2,250* Upfront! (*Minimum!)
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